Okay so this is what happened: I found out and he admitted it all on the phone, he came back to the house and wanted to talk. I smacked him across the face(I should have) I have never hit someone in my life. I told him to get the f out of my house.
He said he wasn't going to stop seeing her and he eventually was going to tell me.
I found out he was sleeping with us both the same time.
Time to lawyer up mother effer.
I still love him and all but MY BEST FRIEND REALLY.
I left her a voicemail telling her he told me about the affair, he told me they have sex and I hope she knows he is still having sex with me too.
I really..really..am hurt. BUT I FELT LIKE I KNEW in my heart. I feel like she was in my house now. I am at this moment done.
I told him I will be getting a lawyer, to stay the F away from me, and unless it is about OUR KIDS then leave me alone.
He just said OK!
I probably ruined all my DBing but honestly I needed to get that all out.
He took our house guns away with him since he was worried i'd shoot someone. I am not that crazy.