I am really conflicted and need some support / wisdom. The EA she is having is essentially provide @ no cost. She communicates via internet that I don't pay for. Sure the cell phone too, but that is not really the main point. If she has money to do things she can get herself out and away from the game and into the "real world". Of course with her WW'ness she may very well meet a "real person", but the $$ thing and not helping her in the transition is really viewed as controlling and that IS NOT a 180 for me.

Should I stay firm to the support yourself, or should I be supportive of her in the new chapter and help her through it?
When I read it and "helping her" it just sounds like me being a ... but pissing her off and giving her more ammo on why I am a bad guy and controlling isn't really going to help. This kind of goes back to my above post and how I can establish my boundary and that IU am not giving her $$ due to the OM and EA.

I would really love some feedback from you guys on these last two post before the weekend if anyone stops by

THANKS FRIENDS smile

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