Nitaf, this is just one opinion, but I'm going to say no, don't send the letter. I think it means a lot that you were able to sit down and write the letter. I wrote one myself, to the OM, but the advice I got on my thread was not to send it, that it would only inflame the situation. I think someone mentioned on your thread earlier that Om/w's are very good at rationalizing their behavior, and would be quick to turn the letter against you. When I mentioned my letter on my thread, someone said to me something along the lines of... Writing the letter is a very good step, it helps you to express and formalize your own feelings, it helps you to have a better understanding of where you stand, and it can influence your behavior in a positive way, but that is likely the beginning and the end of its usefulness.
