I read your last post before you had to switch threads. I was also played for a fool. I helped this woman, she knows my family, has visited our house, met my sons. I feel betrayed by both of them. It makes me so sad that you are going through something similar to me because I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. It is truly awful and I am sorry that you don't have as much support as you need right now. I only hope that having everyone on this board is as helpful to you as it is to me. And, I will be here to offer my assistance anytime. (even with the caveat I could be very wrong since I am making mistakes all the time :-) You seem very caring and I hope your spouse sees what a mistake it was to leave without trying! To me, that is harder to forgive than the cheating.
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ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16