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[1313]

1313, why in god's name are you still helping her out. I see what you are trying to pull of, but it will not work. Time to grow some cojones. Your W lost the respect for you and you doing her favors will not win her back, you will just look pathetic in her eyes. SHE NEEDS TO RESPECT YOU AGAIN if you should stand ANY chance of a new relationship with your W.

I'm in the interesting situation that the W's assistant is acting as some sort of sick proxy. I have to beg to get access to the house. So today, the assistant meets me. She has no idea that I know the W is gone out of town. Now I know that she has a niece/nephew house sitting - she was playing dumb about the meds on the kitchen counter and the spare bedroom in full use.

So, yesterday she's calling me wanting her password for her email. I tell her that's none of my business. She can't understand (or won't) why the system admin wouldn't have everyone's password. I tell her all I did was enter it, tell her to write it down and after that it's her problem. Then, she wants me to give her my admin password. To the point of harassment. She really rubs people the wrong way, and isn't bright enough to remember anything you try to relay to her.

Thing is - I remember her password. I even gave her the password - by telling her "have you tried your name? Different ways? Upper and lower case?" Apparently, she hasn't. I also know the reason that her outlook isn't working is that they bought a new PC (sort of like buying a new car because the old one needs an oil change) to replace the one I built for her, to which I'm still the administrator. Apparently, their IT guy hasn't got it working yet. After all, everything I did was a staff position according to the W.

So, I told the ass (assistant for short) that the W had taken me off of the wireless account, I can no longer log in to pay my bill, and have to go and get my account straightened out (a 20 minute drive) in person. I have to look out for me, not you. Good luck. Love to help you - but the W took care of that.

So, I'm not really rolling over on this. Honestly, I could screw them over like nobody's business. I could literally turn off the W's email and put her out of business. I could have turned off their office subscription if I had wanted - I believe she was wise enough to change the password on that. But I still own the domains, and administrate the emails. But at this point I'd rather take care of myself and disconnect as much as I possibly can.