This was 2 weeks before Xmas, a few days before our 4th anniversary. No, he hasn't filed yet but I heard from a friend that he's talking to lawyers. Which in itself is comical b/c we have no money at all.
That memory will never leave me. And I know that b/c I still have very vivid memories about things from my childhood.
"Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways."