Sandi's Reflections

[daybyday]

Yes you did Sandi. She is def. hurt, but everything seems to be about her. Always has been kind of. Always needed tons of validation and that's one thing that I couldn't give. It became exhausting. That's one of her major beefs. I believe if not her body, then her heart is Wayward as you have said. I guess respect and admiration are the first steps to winning this battle?


Let me clarify, I shouldn't have used the word validation because that is not what I meant. I should have said praise. Constantly looking for that verbal pat on the back. Insecurity I know and I grew to resent that so I pulled back. It makes you appreciate what a fine tuned machine a good marriage is as there are so many moving, interchangeable parts.