I did write this for myself, but i also wrote it for everyone else here going through this.

I tried to step back today and put myself in her shoes and see the things she saw.

I know everyone is trying to find a way to fix things, but I am reading a lot of people just not focusing on the right areas. You will not fix this overnight, no matter what technique is applied it will not work like that. True change and change in mindset and thinking is the answer to everything. If you get a chance to prove that again then awesome, but not of trying to get back with them is worthwhile without this reflection.

in my opinion.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15