I am not moving out Cadet, she is packing some things slowly. I did say no, that wouldn't be happening. I don't know if reality is hitting her or what, I have been withdrawing as much as possible. I know I am away from my kids a bit as I keep space from her but I will make it up to them and hopefully a short term pain is a longer term gain. I still see them of course and make the most of the time I have with them.