So after 2 nights of W heading to her room and no interaction, last night after I got home from work she starting chatting about different things as I had some supper. She was also asking for some time with the kids by herself, isn't a problem as I have a wall climbing course today and tomorrow. Didn't tell her about it, just said I was out. She also wanted to meet a girlfriend over the weekend and was asking me which night suited me. I answered that other than tonight, didn't matter to me.
She lingered a lot during this process, suggesting something for the kids she found out about and asked if I wanted to do it also. I said ok to this.
I seems the assertive, confident attitude that was around a few weeks ago seems to be missing this week. Being wary of anything and keeping my guard up just in case. Not sure if reality is giving her a kick at the moment but following through my own plans and keeping her out of the loop. Just over a week till she is due to move out, she even suggested a couple of nights ago that I could have the apartment and she could stay in the house... Maybe the apartment is not looking as comfortable as the house and family...
Anyway, feel good and feeling like I am disconnecting and able to just shrug and shake my head at the weirdness of being at home. So thankful for this board to write these observations down and find it helps move them from my head.
Last edited by Cadet; 02/19/1607:51 AM. Reason: Link
