I don't think she has any idea what D looks like either. Being a child of two nasty Ds, I can already see this type of approach wouldn't work. She thinks we can continue to coexist as friends, even as partners to some degree. This is not realistic at all.
I am going to keep on with what I have been doing and see if anything changes in the next week or so. If not I will modify my actions slightly and see what happens.
M: 39 W:38 D: 11 S: 7 T: 18 M:13 I suspect problem: 8/15 ILYB: 9/15 Never quit on love I ask her to leave:10/15