Hi Keefa. You can still be the lighthouse. A lot of what you post is coming from what your feeling right now and that's fine but at the same time you need to let the feelings settle before any action is taken
Your Ws actions re the kids visitation seems very strange to me and I can't see why a L would advise her that this is a good course for her to take. IMHO any court will at best frown on her behaviour and see it a detrimental to the children
The feelings of why W would t work on it are ones we all have but I see it as their minds are made up and closed to the idea so Moses could appear to them and they would t listen
Time is all important , time for you to understand your real feeling , time for W to see her new reality and time for you both to heal and move forward
For a newcomer you seem to have a handle on the stitch most times which shows you will cope and then prosper whatever happens
Ipostitve thoughts heading your way for you and the kids
