MB, your last paragraph is so true for my situation. Still don't get why OW came to see you, although it shows how insecure she is as you have been NC with your H and despite this she sees you as a threat! It's funny how OP sometimes acts!

Keep walking on our path. Why aren't you going out on your own? I go to the cinema and I like it. If I was near you, I can garantee you we'd be doing something.

Have faith in everyday as it brings you closer to internal happiness :-)