£12k won't last long, especially if she's only working three days a week.
I'd be surprised if she's not bothered about the kids. If she's that far gone, then she has some serious work to do on herself. Going away to Devon sounds good. Bit chilly this time of year, but there Is plenty to entertain the kids down there.
I think being apart might make things clearer, to both of you. When I look back now, when we were in house S, I was stressed to the max and wasn't sleeping, eating properly etc. Being apart means I still miss being part of a couple, but it isn't the end of the world (yeah, you think it will be) and GAL'ing helps enormously.
I'm not saying you give up hope, you just give up on the situation for now. There is no fix you can perform here; your W will have to reach your own conclusions.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
