Natif...just wanted to say keep your head held high and walk tall. When you are down and out without realizing it, we walk w/slumped shoulders and bow our heads a bit. Stand tall as if you are a queen and all is well. It helps your PMA as well.
Next time you go to bed, think about something wonderful as you drift off to sleep so that when you wake up the next day you will be filled w/good vibes. Then when your feet hit the floor, say It's gonna be a good day. This will help you w/interacting w/H and everyone else.
Sounds like you've got plenty of good advice here. Tootles........