Ok, here's another question.

Without going into details (I just started and 4 paragraphs later realized what was happening), my W's assistant keeps calling with questions on her PC. It usually turns into some sort of strange, circular discussion where she doesn't understand what I'm asking, and demands unreasonable things. Today I told her not to worry about outlook - just go on webmail and get her email that way. She then told me she didn't remember her password, that's the job of the administrator!

As far as I'm concerned, I was kicked to the curb. I'm trying to be helpful, but I literally spent half an hour texting or talking to her resolving nothing. She'll call with a life-or-death situation with escrow meltdowns, then won't answer me for several days or in this case, 10.

Do I consider her the same as the W? I don't want their business to suffer, but since I was told my contributions are basically "a staff position", and they can hire somebody do do what I did - shouldn't they do just that? If an IT guy comes in and can't solve their problem, is that my fault?

I seriously want to be through with this - and now feel that access to my own home is being held ransom for my knowledge and expertise. But at the same time - If there is a chance, any chance... I don't want to blow it.

I'm trying to disconnect - and I've got this "person" on my case. At least if I did something for the W, she'd know about it. She'd see my attitude, good or bad. But this?


Me: 58
Her: 59
Kids: 0
Dog: 1
ILYBINILWY: 9/15
D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed)
Verified OM: 1/11/16
Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)