yes you did good
There are a lot of touch and gos during the crises especially in the beginning
I think they are confused
while they still love us, there is a greater force pulling them out

The DB coach told me if the interactions are getting move or better it is a step in the right direction
but keep expectations low because this may go on for a while
wishing you the best

married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow