I should mention the W had a rough upbringing with crazy abusive parents who are now divorced. She's also been is very abusive relationships before meeting me as well. One of my complaints has been that I have always been treated like I can't be trusted (based on her past experiences). And, she has anger issues which has gotten a lot better over the past 5 years - she's been working on it but still these little fits of anger come out over the stupidest things like I mentioned above. This type of things starts all sorts of fights. I should give this example to the MC as well now that I think about it. I'm not good at keeping a running list of these types of things - my W on the other hand has her bad husband list readily available at all times!
