Look I still hope for the best in my relationship but when I saw things were really not changing I got real for a minute.
I don't think you meet with her yet. You need to meet with lawyer first. Find out your rights and ask everything from house, support, custody, etc.

Know what you are entitled to before you go in and talk to her. Your emotions may get the better of you when you don't know the truth.

Have a leg to stand on before. Don't show your cards. Listen to what she says. Ask questions why she thinks that way. Don't argue it. Really listen to her and try to understand her. Then ask for time to process everything. Bring it all back here and to your lawyer. Then set up a follow up with her.

You don't want to make long lasting decisions when you see her


M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15