Right or wrong, they are her feelings and she is intitled to them. And do not go fooling yourself that just because she hasn't jumped the guy's bones you are any less over. Women take EA DEAD serious. If she's allowed herself to EA, PA is no biggie for her. Rest assured.
1313, why in god's name are you still helping her out. I see what you are trying to pull of, but it will not work. Time to grow some cojones. Your W lost the respect for you and you doing her favors will not win her back, you will just look pathetic in her eyes. SHE NEEDS TO RESPECT YOU AGAIN if you should stand ANY chance of a new relationship with your W.
And both of you, you will have to come to the conclusion that your marriage is dead, gone, kaput and it is not coming back. That is not to say that a new relationship will not emerge, but it will be a while, a long while, think years, not days or week. Seek Sandy's thread, it will open so many eyes to you.
Please do not think I am being a dick, I do know what I am talking about.
