I don't understand these WW. They have the nicest guys and they are unfaithful... crazy thing is my husband once told me he could forgive me for an affair but not for what I did (criticized and complained...mostly cause I was frusturated) why is it that the nice guys rarely end up with the loyal girls and vice versa?
Anyway, I agree that I would not finance her apartment. Why do you want to enable her? It's not like she will respect you for it.
Can you go into more detail on what made her return the first time.
To be honest, I am mistrustfull of repeat offenders. I am mistrustfull and discouraged by them. It makes me fear that the few marriages that do get dB are doomed to have WAS leave again, cause it's in their personality to do so. How do others on here feel about that? I notice there are a quite a few posters on here that are doing this all a second time. Is this all for waste? Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me? Only next time we will be older and maybe in a worse position.
