Help!

[daybyday]

Sorry you are here. I love the revisionist history that they ALL write to justify their behavior. Very sad. It's hard not to feed into it. But most of it is just normal human dynamics of a couple that they have overblown to suit their needs. It's a shame what the ww and waw want to throw away. I was here before and got her to recommit. Now I am back after getting complacent after having some bad things happen to both parents and getting depressed and yadayadayada. But this time I am starting to get it. You can't love someone the way that YOU think they should be loved, it has to be the way that they need to be loved. Again not justifying any actions by the WW or WAW, just a personal revelation. All we can do is stay positive that things will work out and literally work out. It can happen though, but sitting, and wishing won't get it done. It is an exhausting effort. One that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. But this board is great for spirit lifting. Take solace in it and I wish luck as I continue to follow your posts.