It would appear that your wife has been cake eating. She enjoys the family stuff, insists she wants her independence from you via separation, and you are currently willing to pay for the apartment you don't want her to get. Of course she is going to send you mixed signals. She wants to keep you as plan B or as a safety net.
If she wants to get an apartment, she should have to pay for it. If she wants to be separated, she needs to do the work and deal with the expense. Not so easy for her now, is it?
That doesn't mean you need to be a jerk about it. In fact, be neighborly. No more relationship talk of any kind and certainly don't ask her any questions about her moving out plans. It is time for you to focus on being the best daybyday and dad that only a fool would leave.
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