Well I have read many situations where the lbh didn't do things to protect himself hoping to get back together or not rock the boat or worried about W or family being upset them get screwed over because they waited. I think you need to look out for yourself right now and stop enabling her.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15