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Re: Still learning AU Bob AU Bob #2654587 02/18/16 01:36 PM
Joined: Nov 2015 Posts: 210 Australia A AU Bob OP Member
OP AU Bob Member A Joined: Nov 2015 Posts: 210 Australia	Zues posted this on Brokes thread. I liked it, I think this was a part of my problem. This won't bring him back to the marriage. You are going to have to learn a new way to operate if you want to fight for your marriage. The heart of zapping is controlling, the heart of controlling is neediness, needing him to be a certain way and feeling hurt if he doesn't live up to your expectations. In my M this was because I wasn't ok on my own, and wanted XW to be my emotional security blanket. When I found my own happiness without XW it was easy for me to let her live her own life. It's a process, but one you need to continue to pursue. H 50 W 46 T 31 M 24 EA 11.11.15 PA not sure. Dx3 Separated 5.12.15 (not legally)

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