have i been making mistakes too long part 7

[tkdmme]

Yes, I did see a lawyer a while back but we haven't really worked through any details as far as custody and child support.

I pay everything except her credit cards. Our kids are in a very expensive school which I also pay for.

I just feel ganged up on. I have no family close by and her family is all around me watching my every move. They live just a few miles from me and I know they drive by my house to see what im doing or not doing.

I agree. Her and her family have been running the show and im getting very sick of it to say the least. However they are still hoping that she will change her mind and come back to me.
As far as letting her back into my life, ABSOLUTELY NOT! If by some chance she came to me and said that she wanted to work on things, there would be many conditions. I have thought of this from time to time and don't reallwry have a plan as of yet but im not ready for her to come back. She is no longer the woman I married and I don't want anything to do with who she is now.

Don't get me wrong, I dream of reconciling but not without her doing her part.

She still has not admitted any fault of her own and still blames me for everything.

I just hate being hated for no apparent reason