broke, you always hit the nail on the head. My mind constantly drifts to how much fun they must be having now that I'm out of the picture. Or not, maybe deep down in side H knows what he is doing is not right and will only serve to yield more pain and destruction if he keeps on this path. I pray that he is awaked from his fog. But I'll keep detaching.

Correct me if I'm wrong guys b/c I don't have kids but, do you think it would be easier for you to DB if you didnt have children? B/c I'm finding it pretty frustrating. Everyone says, "You're lucky you guys don't have kids," and I understand where they're coming from but does that make our M any less valid? Does that mean I should get over it any faster? And I feel like having kids at least gives you a reason to interact (although that doesn't seem to mean anything anyway in some cases). With no kids, H really has no reason to interact with me.


"Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways."