They use t be close but we lost touch about 1 yr ago. She suggested that her and her H come by and just start to talk about what they have been going through in front of him. She would pretend that she didn't know what was going on w/us? What do you guys think?

Do you think I need to set boundaries about him having a key and coming in and out but not fully committing? It is becoming too good to him. He can have family and be free!I also think he needs to committ to having S atleast every other weekend.ARGHHH