don't take this the wrong way, but who gives a crap what she thinks about it.

why are you so worried about making her mad with this? this was her choice.

have you contacted a Lawyer?

I feel you are letting her run the show on everything.

Im sorry to also say this, but it seems like you are trying to nice guy her back to you and just doing whatever she wants and not ruffling her feathers.

What about what you want? What about your life?

If she decided to come to you and say lets get back together, would you just take her back? Would you just be so happy to have her back you would be a doormat?

I doubt you would be happy very long.

AS far as the kids go, it is in their best interest to be around their dad just as much as mother.

I was the sole provider in my household, when she left she thought she would still keep them while i worked, etc..

i told her no, when it is my time everything is my responsibility.

You will find ways to manage. it isn't always easy, but i do fine


M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15