just catching up on your sitch. I think you take everything your H does and doesn't do so well. Its not easy I know. but you are handling it all very well.
i really hope you went on the safari even if your H didn't make it. after all you will enjoy it with your S anyway. Maybe even better without the MLC catching up to you and talking only about his ordeal.
Have fun.
Irish
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015