nitaf- I think you are doing the right things. Way to go!!

(((((nitaf))))) I know it must be difficult for you to not initiate R talk but it seems to me you are doing a wonderful job. I think its great H tells you he wants M!! This is a huge step. One more wall just came down. Hurray for you!!

hugs and prayers,

Halo Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect. It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.