Oh, one more thing - I only told the MIL because of her relationship with my Mother. I didn't want the FIL to know with his heart condition. The MIL agreed, but apparently the FIL is sharp enough to know his D was up to something, and got it out of the MIL. When the W visited him in the hospital, he chewed her out and she left in a huff. That was over a month ago, they haven't seen each other since - which is beyond unusual. I'd assume the W would also have to be embarrassed.
This is just to say I didn't want the FIL to know about this at all. He's got enough to worry about as it is.
Me: 58 Her: 59 Kids: 0 Dog: 1 ILYBINILWY: 9/15 D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed) Verified OM: 1/11/16 Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)