When the goal is positivity

[JulieH]

Affair is Definatly deal breaker for me. It is ultimate betrayal and husband knows my feelings on this. It has always been spelled out since I was so traumatized by my relationship before him in which bf was serial cheater. My best friend told me, affair makes it easy for me. Black and white. I move forward without looking back.

Right now I am having trouble moving forward because husband had told me he wanted to wipe slate clean and move forward torwards reconciliation. That we owed it to kids and each other to try. then he never addressed it...complete silence and lack of communication. Then I bring it up and he gets angry, but says the fact that he has not filed shows he is open to it and that based on all the horrible stuff I did (take him to court, not compromise or give in to his demands. Of working full time ) he has every right to not work on reconciliation.

Will be starting new thread soon...new everything. So hope to be recognized.