rich, I'm so sorry you are going through this all. too. It really does bite.

Everything you've said is spot on for me, as well. I'm turning 49 in two weeks. Not what I pictured for this bday. I can't imagine going through this with my daughters still at home. Mine are mostly grown and out of the house.

I suddenly have so much anger...not just at H. I actually understand the pain and depression (possibly an mlc) that is driving him. But at the situation. At the people who I thought were friends but still surround him and do activities with him but not me and then periodically send a text like "thinking of you! :)" as if that makes it all better. At boundaries crossed with no guilt or apology from another friend. At the lies and selfishness. Argh! Venting again.


M-51 H-54
2D-27 and 25
M-26 yrs
Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15
He moved out 10-3-15
D filed 1-27-16
D final 10-27-16

Kindness, kindness, kindness.