Thanks for always being there, Thornton. All I want to do is slap him to be honest lol. And, I've been good about not stalking anybody, for anything this whole time. Our "mutual" friend aka his best friend who also happens to be our neighbor heard me coughing up a lung last night and knocked on my door to see if I was ok. And since my revelation that DBing/GALing/180ing includes having a good countenance in front of friends/family is just as important, I pretended that I was doing ok and yadda, yadda, yadda. The last time he saw me, I was a wreck and we haven't spoken since then and try to not pass each other in the hallway.

But seriously, what does he say to a woman on Vday when he KNOWS he is wrong?! And even if he doesn't feel he is wrong, he's whispering sweet nothings to a woman who is NOT HIS WIFE! This is mayhem.


"Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways."