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H does and says things like he wants the M but won't just come out and initiate R talk. Is this normal?


Stay out of R talks!!!
Why?
- first - the odds are good you'll upset and emotional and he'll see it as pursuing. Think about trying to get a squirrel to eat out of your hand - if you chase it, it will run
- second - when you have R talks he will feel guilty about what he's doing - he's confused and that's a really uncomfortable feeling - so he won't want to come back for more of that! If instead he equates seeing you with having FUN (in and out of the sack! ) he'll want to come back for more. And the more changes you can make, even little tiny ones, the more intrigued he'll be by the new "you".

Try changing your perfume, the way you style your hair, dress more the way you know he likes, take up a daring new sport, invite him to some really fun or adrenaline-filled activity.Be more fun, more sexy, more interesting than anybody else.

Ellie