It really depends on if you want to be her BFF or if you want a marriage.

If you want a marriage, politely decline. The cardinal rule of DBing is this: ACTIONS, not WORDS

So, telling her that you won't be her best buddy while she's in an A, and telling her that you're moving forward and not waiting...that would be pointless. Especially if you are meeting her for coffee's at her first invite for no reason.

Instead SHOW her you're not going to be her best buddy or stand by waiting. I like the light/breezy response. If she pushes further don't reply immediately, just post here.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15