Sheesh, Bets, you have been through the ringer lately. There is truth to "when it rains, it pours." I'm glad Murphy has exited the building and things are beginning to come together. What's D22's plan after she graduates? Is she coming home? Seems like everyone is doing well.
Don't forget to take care of yourself. I often forget that. Putting everything and everyone before yourself burns you out. I do also know sometimes we have no choice. I took 2 weeks off of school and now I am at the freakin' doctor every other day. 35 has been exceptionally rough on me,lol.
I still plan on making a visit one of these days, when things settle down for the both of us.