CWOL a lot of people here in such a similar scenario. Thornton gave some great words of wisdom there! A lot of people will not post, but they do read your posts. Just know that we are listening and can certainly relate to what you're going through. You are not alone.


M 43 W 45
M 10.5 T 15
S 26 D 17 (previous relationships)
ILYB 12/25/15 + asks for D
Confirm affair 1/10/16
W has D ready to sign, but agrees to wait for refinancing to go through (I get a house!)