Hi MB. If ow had any integrity at all she would not have come to your house. The fact that she left angry and ready to go home tells me you got in a few good zingers yourself. You sowed the seeds of doubt in ow and even though she went back to H's house, you can know for certain that YOUR words are bouncing around in her brain, too. And he's probably scrambling to make it all right with her, but that sort of desperation leads to more doubt and despair. The A is doomed. You and I both know that not all As are, but this one has too much drama and too much controlling behavior too early. This is supposed to be la la land, and it doesn't sound like much fun to me. Keep the path home open, and be patient.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat