Still don't know if this what my wife is going through is MLC or WW, because symptoms are shared.

She said (repeatedly) to me that she is leaving because she cannot stand living with me for the rest of her life, that she is suicidal with me, that we will both be better off separated.

The fact is I am confused now more than ever and with her still sleeping on the couch and not finding a job, occasionally wanting to hug and cuddle, wanting sex, but not wanting relationship with me.

Me38,W36,D9
M 10y, R 14y

10/11/2015 wants to leave
25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans
Jan 2016 started DBing
Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms
Sep 2016 sleeping in same room