(((((Cali))))) Just dropping in for a hug Cali. I have been thinking about you a lot this past day and in truth I've been a bit traumatised and unsettled by your revelation. I can't imagine how horrible that must have been - the worst kind of BD. Anyway, I hope you are managing to get yourself settled and do post soon to let us know how you are doing.

I've learned a lot from your postings and think you sound like a great guy. I would echo what others have said about your W's negative comments....WW keen to absolve herself I thought....I also hope you don't feel the past period of time has been a waste. I think it will bring you peace to know that you really dug in and tried even when the going was very tough.

Do take care and I only wish the very best for you xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus