So sorry to hear that things have taken a turn for the worse, rich4j.

I think that ciluzen is right on target. Keep your head up and rise above all that rancor you are seeing and be the calm adult in this situation. If nothing else, you will be able to look back on your own behavior and know that it was admirable.

We may not be able to keep our relationships, but we can keep our self-respect.


H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16