i am interested in your situation because i am hoping sex may start to bring my H around to trying to work on the marriage. (my post: "my story....") i certainly think there is something to it. luckily, even though my H seems set on divorce, he has agreed to slow down and do a separation for the time being to get our 'affairs' in order. he's agreed not to persue any other relationships until such time as our divorce is final. i guess that's my advantage. that doesnt mean i still dont worry he's going to meet someone else or be propositioned one day..... i say use the best weapon us women have! Just dont hurt yourself in the process. make sure you are getting some gratification from it as well.
