Cindy, as I stated before maybe Ow, maybe not. He of course reassures me that there is no one so i just roll with that.I have chances to snoop but i really don't want to know. Do I? I do believe that he desires me and that is good. If he is seeking physical touch from me as compared to someone else, I can live w/that. I guess your right even if there is someone else as Michelle says it is hard to not think about your spouse when you are touching them and Ml.