Aaaand this is why I don't like dealing with L. They make their money off of turning a bad situation worse. Sorry if I have offended anyone, but there are actually quite a few in my family (and a federal judge). As far as Ls go, manipulation creates opportunity and troubled marriages breed both.
My journey into D land has just begun. I'm already getting hints from both Ls that they are going to make this adversarial (meeting in separate rooms, no face to face even in mediation).
Keep Dbing, stand tough, but understand that if you are truly wanting to save your marriage, be the good guy and don't let the L make YOUR actions be emotional reactions. Only you control you.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
