So her response was "No problem, forget it. I will be fine." My friend who I speak to about my sitch said that is girl talk for "now you are supposed to insist on giving me what I want right away." My comment was I cannot give her this she has to feel the consequences of her actions and I cannot be her doormat. Needless to say no other contact from her tonight. BTW tomorrow is my Birthday, oh I am sure this will be a memorable one!
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16
Well just got done with counseling. Sometimes I feel like I am wasting my time doing it. What I want is instruction not to talk about how I feel.... I feel bad, how else am I too feel. Either way it is worse today, I turned 41 (half my life down the drain), M is ending, I will never be a 'real' to a 'real' kid at this rate, I am starting over... should I go on. So that's life and yes it would have been better to write this down and burn it but the panic that would create in the office, along with getting fired would just add to my long list of why life $ucks.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16
Well just got done with counseling. Sometimes I feel like I am wasting my time doing it. What I want is instruction not to talk about how I feel.... I feel bad, how else am I too feel. Either way it is worse today, I turned 41 (half my life down the drain), M is ending, I will never be a 'real' to a 'real' kid at this rate, I am starting over... should I go on. So that's life and yes it would have been better to write this down and burn it but the panic that would create in the office, along with getting fired would just add to my long list of why life $ucks.
Happy birthday. I'm in the same boat too. Funny how just a few months ago I felt on top of the world, things were all coming together. It happens to the best of us. Focus on yourself first.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
Happy birthday TimR. Don't let the W get you down. Go do something for yourself tonight even if it is something small like getting a milkshake. You've got this!!!
Me:44 W:38 T:10.5 M:7.5 D:3 BD: 7/2015 W moves out of MBR: 9/2015 WW files for D: 2/8/2016
Thank you all for the birthday wishes. It means a lot in times like these! So tonight S came down to visit me for my birthday. He was here when I got home from work. Apparently, he did not tell his mom that he was coming so I had him tell her. Well I guess she grilled him to the point he said she thought it was my idea that he come down. He did tell her I wasn't even home when he got there, but I am sure in her mind I was plotting. She is just going to have to accept we have a bond that is important to him whether she likes it or not. She of course has not contacted me and I will imagine she wont until the weekend for the wrestling tournament. Well that's my day, one day older and yet I have probably aged 10 years in the last few months.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16
Happy birthday! Glad you got to see your son, but wish his mom wouldn't have made that filled with drama. I never got a happy bday from my WAH this year either. No matter - you have 41 more years to fill up! Hope you have some GAL'ing plans for this year!
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16
