nitaf, It sounds like everyone here is giving you great advise. Just listen to them, read their stories, and see how the good and bad things they have gone through can help you. IMO You are doing the right things by "acting as if", being his friend. As far as hurtful things H says dont worry about them. I know easier said than done. Believe my my Xh said lots of hateful, hurtful things to me and about me while we were going through our S & D. Now look at us!! In case you wanted to catch up on me andmy story .
Quote: Is the Ml while seprated good or do you think it makes him take me for granted?
IMHO you need to follow your heart on this... How do you feel afterwards? Do you feel like this is the only level you connect on right now? Is H ALWAYS the one to initiate ML? How does H react after ML? Good luck and best wishes.
Halo
Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect.
It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.
