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Nate W #2650955 02/07/16 01:27 PM
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Hey Nate, I've gotten a little behind. So, do you feel you have been working on your personal issues that do not have anything to do with your W?

How long has it been she has initiated contact?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
sandi2 #2650958 02/07/16 01:33 PM
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Hi Sandi,
She hasn't contacted me in a month

Yes, everything I'm doing now is about me and nothing to do with her.

Thanks!


M 39 XW 35
T 11 M 7.5 No Kids
BD 8/15 Served 9/15
D 12/15

I don't know where I'm going, but I sure know where I've been-- David Coverdale
Nate W #2650962 02/07/16 01:40 PM
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That is the last I contacted her too...1/8 was her birthday and I just texted Happy 35th and that's it.


M 39 XW 35
T 11 M 7.5 No Kids
BD 8/15 Served 9/15
D 12/15

I don't know where I'm going, but I sure know where I've been-- David Coverdale
Nate W #2650978 02/07/16 02:39 PM
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My sister saw her at the church we go to last Sunday. I was not there but she for sure knows I go there and she has a friend that goes there and she was with her. She has never been there before though and wasn't there today. She doesn't live in the town I live in. It doesn't bother me if she wants to go there but I just thought it was strange...who knows!


M 39 XW 35
T 11 M 7.5 No Kids
BD 8/15 Served 9/15
D 12/15

I don't know where I'm going, but I sure know where I've been-- David Coverdale
Nate W #2651367 02/08/16 01:50 PM
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One of my friends I hadn't spoke to since all this went down contacted me yesterday. He found out because his girlfriend got a hold of my XW to see if we were coming to their son's birthday party so she had to tell them. I felt bad for not telling them but I just couldn't tell some people. I don't really like talking about it unless I have to. It was what she wanted so she got to tell them that.


M 39 XW 35
T 11 M 7.5 No Kids
BD 8/15 Served 9/15
D 12/15

I don't know where I'm going, but I sure know where I've been-- David Coverdale
Nate W #2652186 02/10/16 02:46 PM
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One of those cold snowy days around here...come on spring!!!

Hang in there DBers!


M 39 XW 35
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BD 8/15 Served 9/15
D 12/15

I don't know where I'm going, but I sure know where I've been-- David Coverdale
Nate W #2653146 02/13/16 05:14 PM
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I found out one of my friends at work is separated from her husband. I am trying to be there for her whenever she needs and gave her my DR book. Must be something in the water.....


M 39 XW 35
T 11 M 7.5 No Kids
BD 8/15 Served 9/15
D 12/15

I don't know where I'm going, but I sure know where I've been-- David Coverdale
Nate W #2653160 02/13/16 06:56 PM
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it is so common any more. disgusting


M 37
W 34

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M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15
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Hey otw, I feel ya brother. It's a sad thing to see...I hope you are having a good day. Hang in there!


M 39 XW 35
T 11 M 7.5 No Kids
BD 8/15 Served 9/15
D 12/15

I don't know where I'm going, but I sure know where I've been-- David Coverdale
Nate W #2654317 02/17/16 05:55 PM
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The week so far is pretty uneventful which is fine with me. Still detaching but definitely still have times of missing her a lot. I don't know if we will ever cross paths again but I keep her in my prayers and hope she is safe.

Stay Strong DBers!!!


M 39 XW 35
T 11 M 7.5 No Kids
BD 8/15 Served 9/15
D 12/15

I don't know where I'm going, but I sure know where I've been-- David Coverdale
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