Cindy, thank you. Your posted lifted me up. I sometimes look at his actions and say, are these the actions of a man that wants a D? He must be really confused and scared. He made the comments about me terminating the girl @ work and then I said, can you give me a massage and he said, sure. I really put myself out there by asking but he responded really cool and did a good job. My 1st massage in 3mos. Is the Ml while seprated good or do you think it makes him take me for granted?